
by Debbie Wicker BCCC
Many people assume the second commandment no longer applies today. After all, we don’t carve statues or bow down to physical idols like ancient cultures did—so is it still relevant?
Scripture says:
“You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God… but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.”
(Exodus 20:4–6)
At first glance, this command may seem outdated. But its meaning goes far deeper than carved images. The second commandment speaks directly to the condition of our hearts.
What Is an Idol Today?
An idol is anything we place above God in our lives.
We may not build altars of stone, but we often build altars in our priorities, our desires, and our decisions. Modern idols are subtle, socially acceptable, and often disguised as good things.
Some common examples include:
- Placing our children above our devotion to God
- Pursuing money, success, or comfort as our highest goal
- Trusting our own opinions and desires over God’s will
These things are not inherently wrong—but when they take God’s rightful place, they become idols.
The Heart of the Commandment
The second commandment ultimately calls us to wholehearted devotion.
God does not merely want a portion of our lives—He calls us to love Him fully, trust Him completely, and live under His authority. This is not about legalism; it is about relationship.
Of course, none of us obeys perfectly. That is why Jesus came—to live the perfect life we could not and to show us what true obedience looks like. As we grow in love for God, we increasingly desire to follow Him.
Still, we must be honest: we all struggle to keep God first. The question is not if we fail, but how often we allow other things to take His place.
Why Idols Harm Us
Idols promise satisfaction—but they always leave us empty.
When we elevate something above God, we become enslaved by it. Instead of freedom, we experience pressure, anxiety, and constant striving.
- If money is our idol, we never feel we have enough.
- If relationships define us, we are crushed by disappointment.
- If success drives us, we are never satisfied with where we are.
This is why idolatry leads to unrest. It creates desires that can never be fully fulfilled.
In many ways, modern culture amplifies this struggle. Social media, for example, constantly tempts us to compare, chase approval, and idolize lifestyles that are often unrealistic. We begin to pursue what we don’t have, believing it will finally satisfy us—but it never does.
The Freedom of Putting God First
When God is truly first in our lives, everything changes.
We move from striving to resting.
From emptiness to contentment.
From anxiety to peace.
God created us with purpose, and His design for our lives does not involve endless striving to feel “good enough.” Instead, it leads to a deep and lasting satisfaction found only in Him.
Putting God first is not restrictive—it is freeing.
A Simple Challenge
Take a moment to reflect:
What in your life competes with God for your attention, trust, or affection?
Identifying our idols is the first step toward realigning our hearts. As we intentionally place God back at the center, we begin to experience the life He intended for us—one marked by peace, joy, and true fulfillment.
The second commandment is not outdated.
It is as relevant today as it has ever been.
About the Author
Debbie Wicker is a Board Certified Christian Counselor who brings a thoughtful mental health perspective to the study of the Bible. With more than 15 years of counseling experience, Debbie helps individuals understand Scripture not only spiritually, but emotionally and psychologically as well.
Before entering counseling, Debbie was a partner in a Big 8 public accounting firm, where she built a successful career in management consulting. After a mid-life career change, she felt called to integrate faith and mental health — equipping others to grow spiritually while addressing real-life struggles with wisdom and compassion.
Through the-Bible.net, Debbie writes to help readers better understand God’s Word, human nature, and the transforming power of Christ.

